a new philosophy?
we haven’t written in forever. we’ve wanted to. we’ve thought a lot about it and have realized that we haven’t been writing because we’ve been afraid of our words hurting other people. we’ve been worried about how our words will be taken…
but we’re finally coming to the conclusion that keeping everything bottled up inside is killing us. we have to free ourselfs to write what we need to write. we’re trying to tell ourself that how someone else takes our words is not our responsibility. i see it as kind of like how myriad and us run our group for multiples…there are no trigger warnings and you get to say whatever you want/need to as long as you are not attacking someone else. we never thought of it that way before…as a life philosophy instead of just a way to run a support group. we would love to hear feedback on this idea.
there has been so much going on for us…and i’m not even going to try and update it all in one entry. but a couple of things for now…
someone, i shall not name them, did much damage to the body. many sores all over the body. none of them place us in danger…not like slicing open a vein. but they are having trouble healing because we are having trouble keeping people (we know not who) from messing with them…picking at them…making them bleed. we don’t blame the person who did the initial damage…she was in a highly triggered state and not in her right mind. (or her left, for that matter)
we are trying to get down in print (so to speak) everyone in the system. that is much harder than it sounds. but we are making an effort.
enough for now. later we shall write about the OOPs.